6 Critical Mistakes That Should Be Avoided In A Relationship

By Sebastian

Updated July 31, 2023  

Some relationships last, and some fall apart completely.

But what exactly ruins a relationship and stops it from forming a beautiful lifetime commitment?

What is the issue behind these failed relationships?

Romance and love are always constricted wrongly in movies.

With everyone so reliant on the media, everybody has the idea of a knight in shining armor, but sometimes your knight in shining armor falls off the horse.

The question is, how do we stop him from falling?

Some happily married couples manage to keep their connection stable, but how?

It's simple, avoid the common mistakes people make, from lacking trust in their partner to not paying them enough attention.

Avoiding these mistakes will make your relationship grow and succeed.

How do we fall in love?

Many people think love and romance only last in a relationship's beginning phase and gradually fade over time.

But truthfully, it depends on how you behave during your partnership.

If you behave healthily towards each other, you will prolong your relationship.

The reason our behavior determines the happiness and longevity of our relationship is simple, but to understand it, we must focus and learn the function of falling in love.

Backed by the subconscious criteria we've built over the years, it triggers an emotion called' love' when we find and believe that a person will make us happy.

Love makes it so we stay with the person that makes us happy, subconsciously making us stay with that person.

Sometimes we can act in a rational behavior that we believe won't be harmful, but usually often makes an impact on our relationship and well-being. This behavior will lead to a change in emotion between the two of you.

Only two things will happen after happiness subsides. One, you fall out of love and end your relationship. Two, you stay together for the sake of kids or fear of not finding anyone else.

If you want to avoid this dilemma, pay attention to these mistakes.

The 6 mistakes

1. Lack of communication 

Communication plays an important role.

Without it, your relationship can get boring and not so satisfying anymore.

Keeping good communication will help you in the long run.

If you don't know what to discuss, I suggest asking, 'how was your day' or other simple topics.

2. Not taking breaks

Being around each other 24/7 isn't healthy for you or your relationship.

Space is always an essential factor.

For example, imagine eating your favorite food every day for a week.

For a few days, it's good, but it progressively gets boring and becomes a food you hate.

3. Lack of trust

Trust is something every relationship needs; without it, it will take a toll on your relationship, lack of trust is only acceptable if your other half has done something to ruin it.

4. Not playing your part in the relationship

Every relationship has needs that need to be met.

If they're not reached, it can disappoint you both, so make sure you do your part and fulfill the other's needs, whatever they may be.

If you want to know how to trigger a man's Hero Instinct, read my His Secret Obsession Review.

5. Insecurity

If you don't believe you're a beautiful young woman, how can your other half think so?

Insecurity can play a significant role in the success of a relationship.

To stop this from happening, compliment them every once in a while, "your hair looks good today, honey," or "you've lost weight."

6. Lack of respect

Respect in a relationship is just as important as trust.

Mutual respect is the foundation of any relationship and is even more important for men.

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About the author 


Sebastian loves analyzing statistics about anything that has to do with the dynamics in a love relationship. He enjoys researching why people behave the way they do (and drinks horrendous amounts of coffee when he's in the zone).

He uses his knowledge to help couples in troubled relationships reconnect with their partners and create a perfectly imperfect relationship.

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