You know that spark when you lay your eyes on him?

That spark turns to flirty conversation, butterflies in the stomach, dinner, and the rest is history. You guys live happily ever after… for 3 months. He lost interest.

And just like that, you also know the feeling of heartbreak. But why?

That’s what James Bauer answers in his book His Secret Obsession, where he reveals the true secret to any man’s heart (the hero instinct).